can't help doing sth.
can't stand doing sth 
两个都表示“忍不住做某事” 
如:
I can't help crying.
I can't stand cyring.我忍不住哭了。
bear表示“忍受经得起” ,bear to do sth,bear doing,或 bear that 从句
如:
He could not bear that his friends should laugh at him.他受不了朋友们竟也嘲笑他
I can't bear to see you like this.我不忍见你这样.
I don't feel very well.I can't bear (having) cats in the house.
类似的固定搭配:
Give up doing something放弃做某事 ,cannot help doing something忍不住做某事, insist on doingsomething 坚持做某事, be busy doing something 忙着做某事 ,Accustomed doing something习惯于做某事, keep on doing something继续做某事 ……